tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8264397379561559145.post4915973928339083443..comments2023-10-22T11:17:39.244-04:00Comments on The Princess and the Pee Stick: How Easy It Is To ForgetPrincess Wahna Bea Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13525236950612612052noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8264397379561559145.post-4826838377058867642014-01-31T18:07:33.124-05:002014-01-31T18:07:33.124-05:00I have so many mixed emotions reading this post, b...I have so many mixed emotions reading this post, but none of them are negetive towards you! I'm so sad you struggled after your surgery but so happy you're feeling healthier and there are signs your body is "behaving" better (as if any endo body ever behaves well...) I'm so happy you're able to do more with Ian and the hubby and that when your health returns you may have the ability to have a sibling for Ian. But in the end, just because you're an infertile doesn't mean you shouldn't deserve to feel strong emotions one way or the other about getting/staying/not staying pregnant! I miss you and I hope to hear more about how you're doing soon! Hugs!Missdewyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12276486254763483881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8264397379561559145.post-76526702162688360182013-09-07T20:28:10.067-04:002013-09-07T20:28:10.067-04:00I am so sorry that you had this experience! I am d...I am so sorry that you had this experience! I am definitely "in the trenches," but I don't at all feel contempt for your hoping for a negative or being conflicted sitting in the fertility room for the bizarre turn of events. I'm so sorry for your loss, even if it was at a bad time healthwise and confusing at best, it is definitely something to be sad about, especially given everything you've already been through. I totally understand your wanting to punch your husband, as well-meaning as he may have been...I don't think I'd be comforted by the fact that I could get pregnant (unsustainably) after DE IVF and the gastric bypass. Too many unknowns and not really a answer to all the woes, and one more thing to worry about as you get yourself back to health after everything physical that you've been through with the surgeries and ulcer! I really wonder sometimes why some people seem to just have so much more to deal with than others. Congratulations on your weight loss, and your return to better health. Oh, and SHAME on your Ob/Gyn for not being more responsive. So glad your head fertility nurse did the right thing and checked everything out, even if just for reassurance. I really wish there were OB/GYNs who specialized in fertility patients, because I think they would be way more sensitive to these types of situations! I hope writing this post, as difficult as it was, was healing for you. Take care!Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15868505568965284742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8264397379561559145.post-7090535833275040852013-09-05T09:40:42.099-04:002013-09-05T09:40:42.099-04:00Wow, so much news - I am so sorry to hear about yo...Wow, so much news - I am so sorry to hear about your pregnancy and loss, sorrier still that it brought up so many tough emotions, but incredibly impressed with your maturity in handling it and very glad that you shared on your blog. In other news, that is a very impressive weight loss (!) and I'm so glad you are recovering from the surgery and complications. Take care of yourself and I hope for better days ahead.Charlottehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13456928849826400461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8264397379561559145.post-66446142719172261182013-09-03T04:59:16.339-04:002013-09-03T04:59:16.339-04:00I've just seen this post - thanks for your com...I've just seen this post - thanks for your comment on my blog. I'm so sorry for all you've been through these past months. I can understand your reservations in posting and I know that you know that hearing of a natural pregnancy when you're in our situation is always hard. But I don't judge you at all - you've been through so much, how could I? I hope you're doing ok and hope to hear more from you soon.China Dollnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8264397379561559145.post-53999297744257336642013-08-31T00:52:29.233-04:002013-08-31T00:52:29.233-04:00It is so nice to see a post from you, and thanks a...It is so nice to see a post from you, and thanks also for your comment on my blog today. I have thought of you often over the past year and wondered how you are doing.<br /><br />I've lots more I could say about your post but don't want to write a novella in your comments section, LOL. Suffice it to say, I get where you are coming from with your recent experience with your early loss. (Would be happy to share more details from my own experiences via email.)<br /><br />Also, I'm sorry you have had such a rough time with your health this past year. A 115-lb weight loss is terrific, life-changing. I hope you are now well. <br /><br />Hope to hear more from you soon. :-)Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08872513410814268769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8264397379561559145.post-24366796250861331282013-08-30T20:27:15.670-04:002013-08-30T20:27:15.670-04:00I am saddened by the fact that you had reservation...I am saddened by the fact that you had reservations about posting this post. But I know where you are coming from as I've seen those situations where instead of support people offer judgment and offensive comments. Only you know what is best for you, when the time is right I know that you'll be once again waiting for that positive. I really hope that you are feeling better after all those surgeries and the recent incident. Enjoy every minute with Ian, and I would also love to see some pics of your boy.Rosachkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13009081846548536990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8264397379561559145.post-43234375017869637182013-08-30T20:11:18.922-04:002013-08-30T20:11:18.922-04:00Welcome back! I'm glad you are on the mend aft...Welcome back! I'm glad you are on the mend after your surgeries.<br /><br />I don't have any advice or other input regarding the surprise pg, but I'm glad that it resolved in the way you wanted.<br /><br />Looking forward to some pics of that gorgeous boy of yours!Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03357280337675044927noreply@blogger.com